So I'm starting to have a thing for this girl, and I'm telling her how pretty I think she is and asking how her day was, etc... THEN she says that "theres something I need to say first before this goes anywhere". So I get really nervous right? I'm asking myself what she's going to say next... sure enough she admits she has a 9 month old daughter...
Her daughter doesn't live with her because she gave her up to some foster parents who would take better care for her (I think it was a right decision), and the dad doesn't give a damn about her or his own daughter. So he's out of the picture.
I'm a little unsure of where to take our relationship now, but it gives a BIG advantage, because I can show her how much more of a man I can be compared to her last f***ing loser ex boyfriend and I could honestly sweep her off her feet by being a real boyfriend OR I could just think dating a (pre?)mature mom is a little too much for me..
if you were in my shoes, what would you do? by the way, yes she's hella cute and she does have a smokin body.
girls oppinions would help too :)
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Ouch tricky situation. If it were me I would give her a shot, its not like it really changes your life style right? However, in all honesty had she kept the baby I probably wouldn't even gave her "a time of the day". Because I'm neither fit to support a family, nor am I conditioned to be a father and parental figure at this point my life. I say, if you think it may lead somewhere its worth giving a shot.2