So my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago.And it took me probably a month to get over him. And I really think I am over him now. But I want to have one night with him. Just to like kinda prove to myself I don't like him.I know it sounds sleezy or slutty but I was just wondering if anyone else has felt this urge with an ex?
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Holy NOOOO! I do not think that's a good idea at all! You just spent the last month "hoping" you got over him.(and in my opinion, the first month of a breakup, especially when it was him doing the breaking up - is the worst of it (and most of us secretly hope within that first month that they will come to their senses and realize they made a huge mistake breaking up with us). What if you fall for him all over again? (even tho you think you are over him) and he turns you down (for a relationship) then you have to go through the whole process of "getting over him" again. It just sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.
And yes, its completely normal to have those urges with your ex, but believe me, its NOT worth it. And no, you do not sound sleezy or slutty, girls have needs too!
But there are many ways to prove to yourself you are over him.like start dating someone else!0