So I've been really busy with school, friends, etc. and Alex has a life too (two jobs, school, friends, family) so we've been texting each other for like 2 weeks now? Jeez that sounds bad, but whatever. We had plans for this past weekend but nothing definitive so I bailed. I had a cold...
So I texted him yesterday saying Happy V-day and he said it back and then the conversation pretty much died... I'm not going to carry a conversation all on my own, especially through texting.
So I texted him today and we got into our usual banter where I asked how his gays were and he asked how my hoes were (it's a joke, obviously) and he said that they're getting upset because he won't make plans with one of them for sure. So I said, well you never make plans with me so I know how your gays feel!
And then he said how am I supposed to when you disappear after 2 or 3 texts?! I texted him back saying that I'd rather see him in-person than talk about making plans forever through texting... And I haven't heard back now. So he's either busy or butt hurt.
So what now? Thanks if you took the time to read this bullsh*t by the way.
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"Lol. Guess who just texted me? Sigh...guys"
--> Hey now, I'm taking a little offense to that missy! Guys are unique - I personally don't act the same way as this Alex kid does.
When I want to see a girl, I'll ask her if she's open tonight, then I'll proceed with making plans. It's usually spontaneous or 1-day in advance, but I follow through with it. I don't let other sh*t get in the way (friends, family members whining that they need something, or other girls).
And when a girl flakes on me, or is too busy, I'll try some other time. No problem. Then I'll see what other girls are available, or I'll just go out solo and meet a new girl. However, if a girl flakes on me too much, or doesn't respond back, it's NEXT. Hey, if she's that hung up on other sh*t then she's never going to be available for a date. Girls have to get their sh*t together, too.
Now as far as this Alex kid goes, he seems like the type who doesn't know how to take action. He's indecisive and unpredictable. All he has to do is make something up, and invite you out. Who cares if you don't respond after a few texts? He's that dependent on a response from you? Wow ... baby. I thought girls like to text conversations back and forth, not guys.
It's up to us guys, to show our balls and initiate things. If we want a girl, we gotta chase her and get something going. Show leadership. Take ACTION. Do fun things with others. Not sit at home and over-analyze what a girl does.
You'd be doing yourself a favor by NOT dating this kid - he's not worth it because you'll end up getting pissed off at him further.1