I'm in high school and there's this girl that I want to ask out, we don't really hang out, outside of school. Should I take to lunch, dinner, movie? Just have her come over to chill? Just curious?
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first dates often work best when there is an activity that allows talking, but doesn't require it, just hanging out is a bad idea because there is nothing else going on and the responsibility is on your shoulders to keep her entertained and interested the entire time. Movies aren't great either because you can't talk, meals are slightly better because it gives you time to talk, but there is a distraction to fill any awkward silences, but the problem is lots of girls are actually self-conscious about eating in front of guys.
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