I am an ardent believer that you should do whatever makes you happy. But recently I've been having some problems taking my own advice. There is this friend I have who is the EPITOME of dorkyness at my school...and I've found myself falling for him? I don't know what to do...I'm a big dork myself (although I can hide it very well) and I feel like...he's the male version of me (a scary thought I can assure you) . I just don't know what to do. The only thing that's really keeping me from dating him is his "social status" I suppose. But that makes me feel terrible about myself...That shouldn't be the only reason why I don't...but I can't help but feel...self conscious...especially when my friends (although they're great and everything) are the people that they are. Help me please?
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I think you know your answer just by how your feeling. Your talking about a guy who has that possibility to be in your life forever. Your friends should support and be happy for you but don't allow them to influence or controll your decisions based on their opinions or reactions. But at the same time if your friends can't accept him with you, it may add a lot of stress to the relationship and you, depending on a lot of things. Plus who's to say his friends aren't thinking the same about you. It really shouldn't matter at all and I would go for it and see what happens. Would you rather make your friends happy or date the most incredible but dorky guy who treats you amazing and makes you happiest. Possibly of course. . .0