I am 5 foot 2, I weigh 195 pounds, and obviously with that description you can see that I am fat.
Plenty of girls say that I am very pretty as well as guy friends. But when a guy who is actually looking to date me he says I'm "cute" or "cool"
I know that guys do look at bodies probably primarily before they consider dating a girl and I want to know how much of a role it plays when you decide? Will you even consider dating a fat chick at all? How fat is too fat? Does the fact that I'm fat automatically make me ugly to guys?
Please be honest with me!
Most Helpful Girl
Unfortunately guys are visual and sometimes giant D-Bags. Lose the weight for yourself and not just to get a guy. You have to learn to love yourself before someone else can love you. I used to be a big girl and even when I lost all the weight I hadn't learned to love myself, so skinny me and fat me had the same problem..It doesn't matter what your weight is, you'll find a guy that likes you because of what you have to offer and the person you are. I would also like to add that most of my bigger friends have boyfriends or are married. There are guy out there that like a women with curves...0