Ok here goes. I messed up big I know that I just wish he would forgive me.
When we first started dating he would inititate affection and hanging out. Well after awhile it slowed and I was always taking charge and initiating hanging out. Well while it was slowing I was getting beginning to feel unattractive and that he wasn't that into me any more ( My gut is normally right), but for the first time I said something but it came out all wrong and he felt that I attacked him.
I didn't mean to. I wanted to know why he changed he goes this is who I am and I said that was fine but I wanted to make sure that he still wanted to be with me. Well he broke up with me because he feels that when we hang out that I am expecting something from him that he is not how do I prove to him that it is not that way.
When we broke up he said he still wants to be friends so I dont' know what to do if there is a way that I can prove to him does he want me to prove that I am not going to go away I just don't know what to do.
We were dating for 3 months and he wanted to come to some of the most important stuff of my life ( I didn't ask) I am soo stupid. any more questions just let me know. and I will answer.
I texted him last week and he responded right away I just don't know :(
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I'm not sure about the entire history, or just how intricate this entire situation is, but if this is all there was I have a view. It would help to know exactly what you said to him though.
He sounds like he jumped the gun. He sounds very sensitive on this particular issue and attacked you back. I'm not sure why, but the best I can explain it is like someone telling an alcoholic he or she is an alcoholic. The person freaks out and denies everything. (No offense to alcoholics).
Bringing the conflict up again to try and clear things up with him could spark another conflict. I see two options.
1. You can wait it out. Be nice, friendly, ignore what happened, and hopefully the relationship will restart.
2. Confront him to his face. Tell him he completely misunderstood why you said, and that you only wanted him to know you felt like he didn't love you anymore. You were scared.
I see those two as being your best bet. hope it helps.0
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