I have tried everything to get out of the loneliness that is my life. I've tried online dating, going out to bars and clubs... I've worked on my appearance, on working out, on listening to the advice of god knows how many people on how to meet women
and still I am alone. I've been with 1 girl my entire life, which I dated for about 2 months in college... my Bday is 1 week before Valentine's day, and I walked in on her having a quickie with another guy on my Bday, so the only Valentines day I thought I would spend with someone else ended up that way...
i don't know what to do anymore. I see all the hookups, all the relationships, all the people living their lives... and I've tried, with such persistence, and yet I can't seem to change my situation.
i feel like I am missing out on some pretty important things I should be experiencing and I'm really don't have any more motivation to live...
not sure what to do
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You just gotta take it easy braaaa. I know this doesn't make sense, but if you chase what you want like crazy, it won't come to you: The reason for that is that girls smell your desperation of you to get a relationship and that is truly a turn off. Just don't compare yourself to those people, yeah they have their thing going on, whatever being single its not that bad anyways, think about it: You can make out, have sex with as many girls as you like and you have no body to blame you or to yell at you, you don't have to call her all the time, and talk to her when you don't want to, hell you save yourself a lot more money too, its great trust me.!
Just make yourself better, don't put women in a pedestal trust me once you do it, you get all the control over your dating life, as you are not begging or you are more mysterious as you don't see women as all of that, just somebody to have fun anyways, she is making your life difficult? Kick the girl to the curve and just go for the next. Its the essence of feeling free and not being subject to any bodies decisions or judgments that will make you truly happy.1