I keep hearing on this sight girls say things like how do I let a guy know I like him without making it to obvious. Or how do I flirt with him without overdoing it. When guys love it if a girl says I like you. We love it if you put your arm around us or rub our back. Even if we arnt into the girl we love that stuff. So what are women worried about? What are they afraid of. Its like there afraid of something that isn't there. Most guys love a girl who shows us she likes us it feels great. So why the hesitation?
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Girls don't just walk up and give their affection away to just anyone. If I like someone I WILL tell them so and from that point on I'll touch them or hug them or do little things to let them know I am serious. Now if he wasn't into me before I'm sure he'll think of me after that. Sometimes it turns out that he likes me too, other times they shy away and let me know my affection/attention is unsolicited and other times they begin to have some feelings for me too. Us girls know that rejection IS part of life but some guys can be so cruel and immature about the way they handle a strong, confident woman coming on to them. Even guys my age tend to revert back to adolescence when approached by someone like me. I ask questions about whether he likes me or not just because I want to be sure he is somewhat into me or considering my affection before I make a move. It boosts my confidence and it lets me know that the odds of rejection are a lot smaller when I go up to him. And yes, I as a matter of fact DO NOT ask my girlfriends for advice because girls are very "catty" and would love nothing more than to see another girl fail so they can say "I told you so". Some girls are intimidated by girls who are confident and aren't afraid to approach a guy. They will discourage you because they want to succeed at getting a guy before you do and it will piss them off if you get someone and they can't muster the courage to approach a guy they really like. Instead they just put you down and tell you you're making a big deal out of small things he does that don't really mean anything. So you start to doubt yourself but your gut feeling says "he likes me!" Girlfriends put doubt in you because they want to be the first to make the catch. Others like to steal what you are eyeing.so on and so forth. The list goes on and on but in the end I prefer a guys opinion. That's why most of my friends are guys. They are honest and aren't trying to embarrass you.0