Apparently men need to be reminded of the phrase, "lady in the street, freak in the bed."
The past few guys I've dated have all assumed that I'm this conservative, prudish, good girl because I can be shy and giggly and nervous around them the first few dates. I don't like laying it all out there for just anyone and I like getting to know others' layers and complexities slowly and with care. Little do they know how kinky and crazy sexual I am so it's their loss for jumping to conclusions and stereotyping me!
Just a reminder guys, that women hold back a lot until they know you're worth it. Give it time and watch her other sides come out ;)
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I prefer to go slow, to develop a connection, and then let the sex happen, and deepen that connection. Funny enough, I'm actually kind of similar to you, fairly taciturn, but I take my sexuality to rare heights when I am intimate.
So yes, there are men, who like to take things slow, and will still have crazy sex too.0