Let's say you did everything you could to make the relationship work because you cared deeply for the other person. However, they treated you poorly by neglecting you every weekend, forgetting about dates, and blowing off phone calls. And in the end, they end up coldly breaking up with you for "getting ticked off at stupid things"...which simply means that you got upset and stuck up for yourself whenever they would blow you off.
Then, a week after the break up, they send you this text:
"Hey listen, can we still talk? Not hearing from you is killing me. I'm sorry for how things ended up. I kind of have a lot going on, I'd like to still talk to you. I do miss you, and I think we should stay close because this seems too painful."
Now he keeps staring right at me in class...I can see out of the corner of my eye. I refuse to talk to him or even look at him. I've been trying to avoid him as much as possible. Basically, it feels like we're back to square one...and not in a good way.
What does all this mean, and what should I do?
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He seems very immature and selfish. Rather than reasoning with you over why he neglected you rather than ending it he would've been able to communicate his problems or whatever.
Tell him to sort out his problems first before you can even consider a friendship.
It doesn't seem like he even knows what a friendship nor a relationship is.. unless it's convenient for him.1