OK so this girl and I exchanged numbers and she said she wanted to hang out when we did. so I texted her the next morning and we talked and when I asked her about hanging out she sidestepped the question. now she's not really texting me. so first she wants to hang out and now?...what?
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Meh, she's doing the same thing that lots of girls do.
A guy declares his interest for her, and then she flocks away for the possibility of many reasons:
--doesn't believe she's good enough, ill-confident
--not seeking a relationship because maybe she already has a boyfriend
--is not comfortable with you because she doesn't know you well enough yet
--has too much stuff going on, busy with school/work
--was just being friendly to you, has no intentions of hanging out
--is extremely shy about your advances
Hey, who knows. But what you can do is stay direct, and give her a CALL sometime. Ask her out on a date and schedule it. If she doesn't want to, say it's fine. From here-on out, you'll call her from time to time to say hello and get to know her. And her attraction will pick up.0