I've known this guy for a while and we've been hanging out. He's really wishy washy and I'm kinda tired of it. So, I texted him basically asking him if he wanted to continue hanging out and I wanted a yes or no answer. I kinda feel like he's been stringing me along. Well he didn't respond and I don't get why?
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I had the same thing happen to me by a girl I was seeing. I didn't really give her an ultimatum but tried calling and she ignored my call (it rang twice before going to voicemail). So about ten minutes later I sent her a text that said "I'll stop bugging you now, I can see you're no longer interested". I didn't know for sure if her excuses were valid or not (for hanging out), but I sure felt they were reasons not to see me. The ignored call was the icing on the cake. So a few minutes later she finally responded with, "I dunno, I'm just not feelin it.".
I think it sucks when the person you want to hang out with is too scared to pick up the phone and just tell you the truth. I don't like hanging around wondering about the person. Later that night she sent me another text saying how she was bad at dating, how I was a good guy, deserved better, blah, blah. But at that point I didn't care and just wished her the best, with no hard feelings. Hopefully you can just put it behind you without much bitterness too.0