How do you think fellow individuals in your gender "ruin" the dating game?

With all the blame on the opposite gender when it comes to dating...... imma "flip the script" on this idea.

How do you think fellow individuals IN YOUR GENDER "ruin" the dating game?

Let the discussion begin.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Very good question.

    Members of my own gender typically set the image of what men are perceived as. When you have too many people that end up doing wrong to a girl, then it mucks up that whole perception. For us guys, we are expected to chase down what we want, we are supposed to walk right up to whatever we desire and take it because that's "just what we do". This is all fine, until you start branching off into individual pursuits. So basically, a guy that is strong willed and is chasing a girl might not be distinguishable from a guy saying all the right things to get sex. The ones getting sex then ditching the girl don't think they will have to suffer the consequences, but the rest of us guys do. It's just like someone abusing the system, then gets caught, and now all of us have to suffer because of that one chump. Same scenario. On top of just figuring out how in the hell to talk to a girl, you also need to know WHAT to say and in what manner to say it. It's a very delicate balance to walk, and it's because of the sh*tty guys that make women put up their guard.

    I'll also say that guys that are the suave pickup artists (disregarding their intentions) paint an unrealistic picture of us guys. This one isn't so bad as talking to girls (I'm told lol) is a learnable skill, so it can be fixed. But if a girl experiences a few good talkers, then it seems like she thinks most men are good talkers like that. This can be frustrating because if you aren't given a chance because you are seen as being different than the so called norm, it makes it very tough to *become* the norm.

    /rant

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What Girls Said 11

  • By not being straightforward and by being dramatic

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  • By being too needy or clingy? Or maybe too demanding?

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  • shyness/ being insecure/ not enough communication

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  • Girls definately can ruin the dating game by over analyzing everything about a guy, from things like what he wears, what he says, what he texts, who he texts, etc. And also due to waiting for a guy to always make the first move

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  • Well girls can get jealous quick. Some girls date the wrong guys when others deserve better etc

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  • hahaa

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  • Women that give themselves up to easily set a bad example for others who are genuinely looking for companionship

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  • Play dumb
    Expect everything from their bf
    Don't respect themselves

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  • there seems to be a lot of hatred towards bitchy hot girls

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  • OMG hoes f*** it up for everybody! Girls have collectively lost their self worth and lowered their standards. Too many women accept bullsh*t from guys, stick around when he treats them like sh*t and don't know their own worth. If it were only like 5% of girls then it would be no problem. But sadly it's an epidemic. So men have gotten used to girls being doormats with crappy self esteem and they think we're all like that. They don't approach you with respect anymore. Too many guys think a "date" is watching him play XBOX with his friends, or chilling at his house instead of taking you out. They are surprised when you won't have sex within a month because they have gotten accustomed to women who will do anything to keep a man's approval. It's sad really. When you do have respect for yourself and standards, you are called "too much work" or "stuck up". Why would a guy stick around and work hard to gain a girl's trust when there are 10 hoes every which way he looks? If you have respect for yourself it's hard to find a guy who respects that.

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  • There is a culture of misinformation.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Players can burn in the fiery depths of hell. They take perfectly good, horny women, sleep with them once, then abandon them. Then the guy who hasn't gotten laid in over a year has to wait 6+ dates...

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