With all the blame on the opposite gender when it comes to dating...... imma "flip the script" on this idea.
How do you think fellow individuals IN YOUR GENDER "ruin" the dating game?
Let the discussion begin.
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Very good question.
Members of my own gender typically set the image of what men are perceived as. When you have too many people that end up doing wrong to a girl, then it mucks up that whole perception. For us guys, we are expected to chase down what we want, we are supposed to walk right up to whatever we desire and take it because that's "just what we do". This is all fine, until you start branching off into individual pursuits. So basically, a guy that is strong willed and is chasing a girl might not be distinguishable from a guy saying all the right things to get sex. The ones getting sex then ditching the girl don't think they will have to suffer the consequences, but the rest of us guys do. It's just like someone abusing the system, then gets caught, and now all of us have to suffer because of that one chump. Same scenario. On top of just figuring out how in the hell to talk to a girl, you also need to know WHAT to say and in what manner to say it. It's a very delicate balance to walk, and it's because of the sh*tty guys that make women put up their guard.
I'll also say that guys that are the suave pickup artists (disregarding their intentions) paint an unrealistic picture of us guys. This one isn't so bad as talking to girls (I'm told lol) is a learnable skill, so it can be fixed. But if a girl experiences a few good talkers, then it seems like she thinks most men are good talkers like that. This can be frustrating because if you aren't given a chance because you are seen as being different than the so called norm, it makes it very tough to *become* the norm.