Especially if you thought he was really NICE on the first date?
What makes you not answer his phone call, or say that you're "kind of busy" or "not really in the mood for a relationship right now"?
PLEASE elaborate. Thanks!
- He was kind of boring...I need just a bit more excitement than that wet mop.Vote A
- Hmmm...he's probably not used to dating/he seems kinda inexperienced?Vote B
- He's too easy-to-get.Vote C
- He was REALLY nice, but I just didn't feel a spark.Vote D
- OtherVote E
Most Helpful Girl
Well, you're asking about a second date so that would mean that only the first date is being taken in consideration so with that I would have to say that I wouldn't rule him out if there wasn't an instant spark. Here are a few reasons I wouldn't do a second date. Major differences in opinion came out in convo that I already know wouldn't work in the future (definitely if regarding money habits, religion or sex), if I met him online then maybe I'm not physically attracted to him in person, I don't like "me too" men that just agree with everything I say without having an opinion of their own makes me feel like he would say anything just to get me, if he talked way too much, if he talked too much about himself and seemed self centered, then sadly if he didn't talk much and expects the woman to carry the whole convo and its like pulling teeth to get more than 2 words out. There are also the obvious reasons, there are nice guys that can't handle their liquor, have a temper, etc. What I can say for sure is that if you don't get a second date it has nothing to do with bing busy or not in relationship mood, those would all be bs excuses. Hope this helps.0
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