So I'm really good at talking to girls online. Flirting, I've had girls like me, be willing to date, cuddle with me, do sexual things, etc. So I guess I'm likable.
My question is how the hell do I get this going in person. lol If any girls are ever around me, it's pretty rare for me to say anything to them. I just talk to my guy friends.
Unless I just wanna date girls that live miles away, online doesn't really help because it's never girls anywhere close to me. Not WI or any surrounding states even.
For anyone that thinks "Just do what you do online in person." It's not that easy. It's not the same at all. Different feeling, different atmosphere, etc.
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Study yourself, online. Study the way you are. Try and capture that mood and charisma, and create a person who is you, but with the attributes of your online self. Then, when your out with your buddies, and talking to people and meeting to people, be that guy. Don't go out of your way to be that guy - you might find you have no reason to talk to those girls, in which case, you might need to find other places to meet girls. But in your everyday social situations, try and be him.
Eventually you'll forget about him, and you'll be him - but you won't have really changed, because he was you, you know what I mean? Its halfway between worship and acting. And it works, every time.1
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