Say you've had a couple dates where you've kissed and gotten close and had a good time together.
Then he goes three or four days without sending you a text or calling you.
What goes through your mind when this happens? Do you take initiative to see how he's doing or what's up? Do you assume he's lost interest? How do you feel when he finally does get in contact with you maybe five days later?
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Haha this is pretty much what goes through my head every time:
"Hmm why hasn't he texted? Is he waiting for me? Maybe he's just trying to play his cards right... Or is he busy thinking of other things? Is he thinking about me? Should I text him? No, I should wait for him to text me, I shouldn't give in... Oh, but I want to text him! GAAAAAHHHHHHH FRUSTRATION!"
I don't necessarily assume he's lost interest. Sometimes I do, but it's my mind going haywire. Of course I'm going to over analyze EVERYTHING.
When he gets in contact with me five days later...
"YES! YES! YES! FINALLY! I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU! HAHAHA GLORIA, YOU'VE STILL GOT IT!"