Would you stop dating someone because of their family (parents and siblings)...either you don't get along with them, or because the way they act or whatever?
My gfs family is lazy, eats a lot, yells and fights with each other every day...
i feel like if I marry this girl, I get the family and I don't want all the negativity, fighting, drama, laziness in my life. I can't picture them as my future kids grandparents or her sister and brother as an aunt or uncle.
Is this a bad thing? Do people consider In-laws when trying to find a mate?
I hate seeing her upset but I also find it unattractive that she yells and curses at her family and they curse back.
She can't even come over to my house because my parents and her don't get along...we have no where...
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First of all, this is a very good and tough question.
I gave it a thought and sure it depends on some things. Ask yourself: how intimate will they be to me & my children after marriage? Will I be living nearby and see them everyday and that might lead to fights? or I'll leave far away with my love so no problem?
I'd say it's an important factor for me at least BUT if they wouldn't be affecting my future life with him, plus I love him so much and can't imagine my life without him then I'll go for it. Good luck! :)1