Okay, the title is a bit vague so here are the details:
I am a freshman at a community college and am new to dating (only one serious girlfriend before this point) and have a history class with this girl that I started to like. She was very quiet, like I was, and didn't talk to anyone in the class. I didn't feel like approaching her because she wouldn't talk to anyone else, so I figured that she did not want to be bothered.
However after a little while, she approached me and started to chat with me before class, which was strange because she would never really talk to anyone in the class. Our conversation went very well. She seemed interested at the moment with stereotypical "girl likes you body language" (movements I tend not to rely on to tell if she does) like twirling her hair, smiling, staring, etc. After the teacher came in we ceased our conversation.
The next week we would not talk too too much, however, I would keep catching her staring at me from across the room and quickly look away when I turn towards her.
This past week we had a test in our class, I finished my test, and the girl finished the exact same time as me, so we started initiating conversation as we left. Some parts of the conversation were picking up on our last one that was around a week or two ago. She seemed to keep good eye contact to me, and was enjoying my company. We were talking about our jobs and such, school work (including a hectic work schedule during spring break), etc. At this time, (since it was the day before spring break) I thought it would be an appropriate time to ask for her number, in which I did. She gave me her number, and instantly asked me to call her number right there to see if it worked. The phone number worked, and I added her in my contacts and vice versa. I told her I would call her on the weekend to see if she was up to do anything during spring break. (This was a Friday)
That Sunday I decided to call her. There was no answer. Of course, she told me that she was going to have a busy work week, so I kind of expected she wouldn't be able to answer, at least at first. A day past and I had not had a call back yet. I have been thinking about calling again perhaps today or tomorrow, but, if it turns out she was not interested and I was getting fake signals, I do not want to push anything on her. However, if it truly is work, maybe I should call again just once and see what happens. Then again, it is only a day, maybe I am jumping to conclusions a bit too fast
Any comments or suggestions or ideas on what she may be thinking? I am new to dating, so yes, I am somewhat clueless on this and am not sure where to take my next step.
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doooood! you got her num! First off, well done! she is interested. she happily gave you her number and even made sure it worked! so don't be worried about her not calling back. people forget to call back ALLLL the time. gdarnit, I forget to call people back every once in awhile too. it doesn't mean that I don't like them, it just means I've been playing to much xbox.
I would definitely send her a text to see if she's free to do something or whatever, but don't bring up the subject of her not calling back.
I also go to a community college. transferring out in the fall. thank God haha
Best of luck!