I am getting tired of dating. I am finding a lot of great guys that want to be with me but I don't want to be with them. I have someone in my life now and on paper he looks good, we can have good conversation but just no spark.I feel like we could stay married forever,have the perfect house, kids etc but with no excitement, no gleam in our eyes.He is very attracted to me and I am OK on his looks but again no spark. Everything just seems blah but I am tired of looking. Keep in mind that I could see myself growing to love him, there's just not that flirty I can't wait to come home to you thing going.
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I have to say I think you are bring foolish. What you are doing right now with this man is only gonna hurt him and ultimately you in the long run. I think your best bet would be to end the relationship with the man & actually STOP LOOKING.Men are hunters by nature... They will do anything & everything for the woman he so desires. Let the man find you! Be open & not so desperate. Be flirty but not slutty. Be witty & willing to turn a man down if he doesn't come at you with respect. That's what attracts a man! Your standards! Men really do respect them. If you just decide to select this guy because you are tired of dating, you are gonna set youself up for failure. Those are immediate ground for cheating. & I think the reason why there isn't any UMPH is because you sought him ou, when men need the chase! Maybe, you chased him & didn't allow him to chase you. Either way, when you settle you make yourself appear desperate. Learn to be the girl in the relationship... Give a little and take a little away! That keeps the interest of your man, & keeps him chasing you! Good luck!0