There's a guy that I don't find physically attractive but I really do like his personality. Some people are saying if I date him I would just be leading him on, is that true? Or would it be shallow to not date him because of his looks?
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I've dated some girls who I thought were unattractive, but dated them because of their personality. Now they had some features on them that were attractive so that helped but mainly the face region. It took my ex 8 months before I actually openly liked her. The longer we dated the more physically attractive she appeared, and all her flaws slowly went away. Til the day I found out she cheated on me, then well her personality went out the window, and her ugly looks came back into play real quick. Now, I've also dated girls who had no physical attraction whatsoever, and well I just couldn't do it, they have to be at least a little bit physically attractive,whether its their eyes, their lips, their smile, their chest, their stomach. their butt.. so on and so on. But if you don't find a single thing, there is nothing in my eyes, that will save the relationships. Those kind of people are the ones who become good friends that you can talk to, but not relationships. But you gotta make sure that is clear so you don't lead them on. And by clear, I mean literally tell them. Don't give them obvious hints, because trust me, they aren't obvious to him. Tell yourself this, if you can't be seen in person with him like holding hands and more.. then don't date him. If you can mustard that up... then his looks aren't as bad as you think they are. The fact that you are even asking this question, I would have to say.. don't date him.0