...don't just sit around looking cute/hot/sexy waiting for guys to approach you.
From what I've seen, females that approach guys they fancy have better luck (I use that word loosely) when it comes to relations. You can be proactive & choose the guys that you want, instead of just waiting around.
When it comes to life, nobody is successful by simply taking handouts & not being proactive. The same when it comes to dating. The "handouts" in this case are players, jerks, & overall non-ideal specimens of the male species.
If you want the best of anything in life (in this case, guys)...be a go-getter & you'll get better results. It ain't rocket science. :)
Share your thoughts, please. Both genders are welcome to state their opinions on this.
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They have better luck when it comes to RELATIONS (sexual partners, casual relationships) but not when it comes to serious relationships where the guy values her and loves her. I've found that when a man has been genuinely interested in me as a person, he always eventually approached me or made a move. The guys who don't make moves on you, are the ones who are fairly ambivalent about you. Now that's not to say that every guy who approaches you is genuinely interested in you.
I don't sit around looking for guys. I make myself available, approachable, and I put myself in situations where the guy I want will notice me. He does the rest.1