What does dating process me?If me and this guy are CLOSE and like each other then how do I interpret him saying "we are in the dating process. getting to kno each other". I'm new at this dating guys thing help me out.
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It means he thinks none of you are ready to make a commitment, such as kissing, sexual activities, revealing intimate secrets, holding hands in publc, revealing yourself to friends and family and so on.
It's not meant to be negative, it's just meant as a way for him to tell you that, like he said, you are still getting to know each other. All he means is he's not ready to advance to any further steps and would like a little more time to let his feelings build up, and his thoughts about you. The longer something goes on, normally the bigger and larger his feelings will get for you. He's not using you as a date and keeping you at bay by telling you that you are just dating friends, so don't worry if that thought crossed your mind.
Once he feels he knows you better, like a closer friend, not just a close friend, I think you'll find he'll open up to you more.
Sometimes because people don't 'evolve' in relationships as quick as each other doesn't mean they aren't a decent match. Good luck with yours, and I hope it brings you happiness. :)0