I've been on two dates with this girl, things went well on both dates! We held hands, cuddled, and were getting along just fine.
Haven't seen her in two weeks, she left town for a week, and just as she got back I left for my holiday. We barely talked while she was gone, I let her be because she was enjoying herself on vacation so I texted once in a while and let her have fun. The same thing with my vacation, I texted every once in a while but we kept it short.
I texted her today, and she didn't respond at all. That's the first time since I met her that she has ever done that to me. I texted her a simple "hey :)"
It's bugging me a lot because since we haven't seen each other in so long, and we haven't talked much... it just feels like her blatantly ignoring me one of the few times I do contact her is a slap to the face. Because I don't contact her much as it is since we've been on vacation, and she ignored my text today I don't know if that means I should back off or step it up by calling her instead of texting her..
Things went so well on the dates, and now that we haven't seen each other in a while it seems like we're drifting apart.
Should I just let her be until I get back, and then call her? I can't wait for her to contact me because she most definitely wont, she's never contacted me first since I've met her.
What are some reasons she didn't respond and what should I do?
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In my opinion, "hey:)" is not something that's asking for a response. I'd reply if I had free time, but if I didn't at that moment, I won't write back and probably forget to do so if there's no follow up message like, "how's it going" or "what's up" I wouldn't read in too much...just send her another text with more content and see if she still doesn't reply or not.0
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