I recently went out on a date with a girl and it went rather well, but at one point I mentioned I'd never tried drugs (ever), and she seemed kind of surprised (once-upon-a-time she was kind of a party girl, although she's not anymore).
So for all the recreational drug-using ladies (or former recreational drug-using ladies): would my never having done drugs be an issue with you dating me? Would you consider me to be wet behind the ears, naive, or look down on me?
By the way, I'm not anti-drugs; I just never had the opportunity to try them as I never really had friends that did that. I kind of feel like a) I missed out on some fun experiences, and b) it's one less experience I have in common with this girl.
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Hmm it could go either way. First of all, I want to make it clear that any woman who is unimpressed by a man never trying hard drugs is not classy, and doesn't deserve your time anyway. In terms of the green - she likely wouldn't care if she's not into it anymore, but if she is, it could get tricky. I only say this because when you're in a new relationship you tend to adopt the habits of the other, good and bad. No one wants to "introduce" another individual to their first drug experience when one is already seasoned, it definitely puts her in an awkward position. If you were already interested in trying it yourself, do it on your own time and only do it with her when you feel really comfortable with it. That being said, if she really likes you, she won't care whether you ever want to try it or not, just as long as you're not preachy about it :)0