I'm 29 and found an amazing man who's only 20! He's perfect for me in every way and I love his family! He's never had a girl friend either and he lives 7 hours away. I can see a long future with him but I don't even know how to go about to get one started. We have a ton of fun together but I think he doesn't even think of me in that way because of my age. I want to make a move but I don't want to scare him either since he's never even been on a date. What should I do and what do I need to do?
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Trust me, just because there is a 9 year age difference doesn't mean he cannot think of you as a potential girlfriend or want to be with you out of pure attraction. I have been chased and dated men much younger than me for some time now and THEY were the ones who did the chasing and asking, not the other way around.
So, dating a younger man follows the same flow as dating a guy your age or older. I would say the key difference is you are interested in a guy who is in the prime non-relationship years. He may have no interest in all the responsibility that comes with a relationship or he will just be trying out relationships and dating for now and be unclear what he wants.
So, while you can see so much with him, he needs to be able to say the same. You two live 7 hours apart and though you may be ready to see a long term relationship with him, I don't know that he is in the same place or he would have been making some sort of moves on you. Seriously, hormones would at least get the better of him if you two hang out.
I say, just keep enjoying his company and see where it goes. Give it more time. What do you have to lose?0