we broke up like 7 weeks ago, stopped talking like 5 weeks ago and I've talked to him casually this weekish. But I miss him like crazy, we had every intention of getting back together too, so I was wondering if sending this text is a good idea or not.
hey I just wanted to say that it was nice to talk to you again, I've missed it. I still don't know why we stopped talking to be honest. especially since I keep relating back to what you had said before. I don't know maybe I was just gullible or it was your way of keeping me content, I don't know. I hope that you are now happy with where you are and who your with. sorry for the essay lol but I had to, I know this probably helps nothing but its hard to keep everything inside. for what it is worth I am sorry for anything I was at fault for and again I just how your happy now.
what do you think? what should I add or take away?
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"I hope that you are now happy with who your with" - he has a new girlfriend?
I think the thing is with our exes is that, in the early stages of the break-up, every emotion runs. And for the ones who still feel like they want to be attached, you find it hard to let go. If he is with someone knew, and he's happy- then send this message but make it as closure for you..if that is the only way you can get it. Because, honestly if I were his new girlfriend, and you were sending texts that could be seen as you trying to get him back, I would be pissed... I'd feel like you'd had your chance now leave him alone. BUT...I have had this situation, and I have been you in this situation, so I understand the many reasons for getting it all out.
If you are looking to get back with him, ask yourself why? first, because it could be that the wounds are still sore anf living without him is tough at the moment. No one would expect you to move on straight away..like he has..i think for men it is sometimes easier because they just switch off, but us girls are supposed to me a lot more emoitonally attached then that.
Also remember that if you go making matters worse you could lose him altogether and not even have a friendship to hold. I'm not going to tell you what you should write, because its down to you and for whatever reason you have, good luck what ever you decide.0