so I met this guy josh about 3 months ago...we text each other about once a week just really casual. We both work about 60-70 hr weeks we are both 25yrs old... so we finally met up to go out we were both nervous and had big smiles plastered on our faces...the whole entire night he was complimenting me and kept saying how glad he was to b there with me I was a bit more coy about it and did mention I was having a great time as well...we held. Hands and walked on the beach(I know typical) lol it was time for me to head home and we just hugged. I normally rush things on the 1st date but this time I wanted to take things slow. I actually hit it off with him and I wasn't expecting to...everyone is telling me I should of made a move? That way I could get a second date? Is this true? Now I'm wondering if I made a mistake and if ill hear bk from him?
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its normal to want to take it slow, it prevents you from getting hurt! its possible he wanted the samething. you should always listen to yourself and focus on what you want and need for yourself, don't rush anything if you don't want to because if you try to and you're not ready it might screw things up. you have to do your part to make the relationship work and he will do his, you both just have to want for it to work. if he cares about you he will wait for you no matter how slow you want to take it. :) good luck!0