I've been talking to a girl for a while and we have gone on several dates with her. If after a date, a date a guy doesn't contact you for several days (2-3) do you want him more because you feel like he's presenting a challenge (hard to get), or does it make you feel like he's not interested and turn you off.
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It is a turn off. I would simply think he is not that interested. Now, if I really liked him and it seemed like our dates had been going well, I would give him the benefit of the doubt, but if he did not give some reason for having not talked to me for that many days (unless this was totally normal for him), I would be irritated and it might sour things. If I was on the fence about him, this lack of contact would end it for me.0