Have you ever
been hurt by a girlfriend (caught her cheating etc)
and broken up with her
and than dated a new girl and been afraid of getting hurt again ?
so you push that one away ? and hurt her , before she hurt you ?
have you regretted doing that? did you apologize etc?
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When I broke up with my last girlfriend (ended on bad terms) she told me I was "small" and went around spreading a rumor to all her friends. That's how I ended up on this site in the first place (and no I've never asked a stupid question about my penis). Since then I've been feeling really insecure and have not let any girl get close to me because I'm afraid of what she will think. Even though I've been told size doesn't matter (it does to me) I never believe it. I know the next girl doesn't deserve someone with the mind set that they will never be good enough for her so I push them away or turn down anything sexually related. I've never explained why I do that because frankly no girl want to hear a body image problem a guy has, they will assume he has no confidence even though that's not true.1