Long story short...this player lead me on, I confronted him, he denied it (of course), said he just wanted to be friends (he said things to me that normal friends don't say to each other), and I told him to not talk to me because I needed to get over him. I've liked him for 2+ years. We haven't talked for about 5 months and I'm perfectly fine. But recently he's been texting me to hang out/ party. At first I was thinking 'Oh he just wants to get me drunk so we do stuff'. But he knows I'm not easy and I'm still a virgin so if I wanted to lose it to him, I already would have (I was ready to, but then I found out he was a player. I'm just waiting for the right guy). And at least 5 girls have written on his Facebook wall saying they need to hang out. So why is he bothering asking me to hang out when he knows I'm not going to do stuff with him? I wouldn't even if I was drunk. He's been with a couple girls who I know are VERY promiscuous (and who knows how many more) and that just turns me off.
Why does he want to hang out?
What Guys Said 1
Forget him! You totally deserve better. You don't wanna feel used or anything, so the less time you spend with him, the better. Where do you hail from just out of curiosity? :)0
What Girls Said 1
You already went months without talking to him... Don't let that progress screw you up... It will only get easier, but he might play you again if you hook up.0
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