this guy claims to be really into me. I'm pretty sure he believes in Islam and I'm not very religious... I don't know if I should believe that he says he likes me because it seems silly that he would waste his time on me, someone with completely different beliefs as him who his family and friends might not approve of.
and then there's the whole sex issue. I don't know if we would ever be able to be intimate that way. I'm not completely sure as to how it works in his religion but I'm pretty sure he isn't supposed to have sex out of wedlock.
there are so many things making our potential relationship complicated and confusing.
it would be nice if someone could clarify for me if it would even be possible to date him and the whole sex before marriage issue. is it worth it?
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Ok. Like Christianity and Judaism there are taboos about sexin before marriage but how many Jews and Christians do you know that have sex before mariage..Exactly. And the Muslim religion does not have a problem with Judaism or Christianity they believe that if they do not commit shirk (worshiping of anything or anyone other than God) then they will go to heaven. But what is important is that Islam recognize Judaism and Christianity as valid religions. If you really like or love him it shouldn't matter what his religion is. and you can cross the sex bridge when you come to it. If I were you I would date him and kind of test the waters to actually see what he belives Because like in any religion one person can be uber traditional and the next totally not. I mean my familie Catholic and my mom goes maybe for holidays and others go to church faithfully everyday. So it truly depends on the person. Hope this helps :)1