I tend to be the sort of girl who considers liking a guy when he shows interest probably because I'm too shy to make moves on men. Recently I've been talking to a dude who was attracted to me and I got a little bit interested. We've been texting and chatting online a lot like for 2 weeks but haven't actually gone out one on one, always in a group. He wants to take it slow because of past failed relationship. I agreed as I thought it would be wise too, after all I haven't been that successful either. I looked forward to his chats usually but tonight was such a big turn off. He's your average guy who likes action films and likes laser tag/ paint ball sort of stuff. I am more the less mainstream, maybe indie flick sorta gal. Tonight he went on and on about laser tag despite me doing a "oh yawn" as an indication I wasn't really into it. My interest meter was way up there and suddenly dipped. I've ALWAYS dated guys who are into films. Guys only into mainstream is a bit of a turn off for me but I can't decide if its a deal breaker. What's wrong with me? Am I already jaded before it started? They were some things about him that I liked like that he studied neuroscience in school. We also seem to have some chemistry when we meet. Should I give it more time?
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Ya its differences that make relationships unique...although if you have no common interests besides physical attraction could get old quick. he may not like your movie choices or other things but he's sticking around. the guy sounds cool because he's himself and doesn't change for other people.so he likes different movies than you. who cares. I would eventually try going on a one on one date and find out more about him if he's cool with that.0