I am the father of a 14 year old son. I want him to grow up to have better and healthier relationships with women than I did. I did not date much in high school, but I was definitely a "horn-dog" (horny dog). I don't want him being like I was. In trying to help him, I would like to hear from the ladies on here 16 - 21. What do you look for in a guy? Physical looks, his type of personality, what if he is waiting on marriage for sex, what kind of dating do you like (groups or just the two of you), etc. Thank you!
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I'm a little older than you're range, but I have a younger brother who is just turning 18. I've helped him grow up and he has had a few girlfriends and goes out nearly everyweekend. The physical looks matter more at that younger age than when they get older. But what really matters is that they look presentable (ie. don't be the kid that has BO in the class). Girls will have their preferences of brown, blond, redhead, etc as well.
However, more important than looks is humor. Make a girl laugh and she likes him. Know how to make a girl smile, and she's his.
While throughout middle and high school, most dating is done in groups. It's group dating and or hanging out with a group of friends with couples intermixed. There will be a few dates that's done just with the two of them though. Most of their one on one time can be done by being pulled aside on group dates, or after school activities.1