Although you know you can't choose the gender of your first child, but there is always one that you would prefer out of the two. Which would it be?
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I think you might have a preference now, (like, I'd say a boy) but I think if it came right down to it and your gf/wife said she was pregnant, you'd suddenly find all of that goes out the window, and you'll just want whatever it is to be healthy.
We generally don't think about what can go wrong with a pregnancy. But I think once a couple is expecting, then it's almost all you CAN think about.1