Hey, I am kinda seeing this girl atm, I don't know if its just hanging out or dating but, Because we don't do anything sexual really, but it IS one on one... She knows I'm interested though I'm pretty sure...
Anyway.. Should I just be forward with her and ask her if this is going to go anywhere but friends? Or will that just kill any potential for more than friends? Thanks
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This is like the age-old question - and for a reason! It's really hard to answer.
You need to decide firstly that if you DO speak up and ask, you are able to sacrifice your friendship should it backfire.
After you've come to terms with whatever you've decided, I'd suggest some gentle hinting. Like next time you make plans to hang out say something like "alright, it's a date!". And if you're doing something like movies or drinks, pay for her and if she protests then say how you never let a girl pay on a date. Basically I'd suggest just subtly using the word date and see how she reacts. Say it sort of playfully so there's not awkwardness if she corrects you and asks you not to use the word.
Once you've got a good gauge of what's going on with you two, then go ahead and ask.0