I'm finding it hard to connect with any guy, I've had a few interests but when I kiss them I don't feel anything or think about them afterward, what's going on? Is there anybody else who feels likes this?
P.S I'm definately not attracted to girls
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I think sometimes people expect too much from so little. A lot of girls grow up to think that kissing is going to be incredibly intimate and sensual and special - when, really, sometimes, it is just playing tonsil tennis with some guy.
Things don't happen with the click of a finger.
I mean - you can have a good kiss and still not suddenly feel overwhelmed with a sense of belonging or something.
There's nothing wrong with wanting something good or special, but I think you've also got to be willing to work for it - sometimes a 'click' might not happen straight away, or from the first kiss as hollywood would have us all believe - but it doesn't mean that you couldn't build something with a guy.
At the same time - you might have this amazing physical chemistry with someone, but when it gets down to the nitty gritty of it all - that's all there is.
You're growing up, things are less new, less interesting - and you begin to realize that sometimes a kiss is just a kiss - it might not blow you away, but it doesn't mean you and the guy don't stand a chance. It's not the be all and end all of everything.2
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