I was with the guy for three years and I am still madly in love with him. We have been broken up for three months, and I know we are not getting back together. Oh, I also have a 5 year old son from a previous relationship who was close to my now ex. Anyways, do I start dating? Every time I make plans with a guy I back out. I just am still so in love with my ex. Any advice on what I should do?
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Don't date unless you know in your heart that you're ready. If you're still saying that you're "madly in love" with your ex, chances are, you still need time to recover from the break up. 3 months may seem like a long time, but when it comes to recovering from a 3 year relationship, probably not quite long enough. And any guy you tell this to is probably going to assume that you just want a rebound. If I were you, I would wait a couple more months, until you know you don't have any lingering feelings for your ex.
I hope this helps.0