OK, we all know first dates are about "getting to know each other" right? you can't talk during a movie, and while you could do something before or after the movie, a lot of the times, people need to get home early or w/e.
I'm in a situation where if I were to ask this girl out, id probably wind up going to a movie. that..or even going back to my place or her place to see one. see, I work in a library, she comes in every Tuesday and I've grown to really like her and I have reason to believe she does too. she's always looking at the movies. so I'm thinking well, she obviously likes watching movies, why not just go to one, she might like (figuring out what are her favorite actors/tresses and genres). but, is this really the best idea for a "first" date. I dk
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Do what you want. If you like movies... you'll want a girl who likes them too.
Dont listen to these girls saying "oh, it isn't terribly original". Whatever. You don't need some girl you'll have to entertain. You're not a f***ing entertainer, you're a person looking for something. This is about mutual interest, it's about finding someone you can bond with, for both of you.
I don't know about you but I can only maintain conversation so long. A movie is a nice 'intermission'. You get to shut up and just see if you like her energy. How you get along when you're not constantly yaking. And you can hold her hand, and feel if you two have some affection.
I think any girl who is thinking about your setting choice for the first date... instead of what kind of person you are and if they like you... is a SHIT choice. She is needy and shallow and the two of you will ultimately go no where. The right girl is too excited about going out with you, that she could care less what you do.
But that's just me.0