When first dating/getting to know someone, what do you keep hidden?

What information about yourself do you keep to yourself and do not reveal to a new crush until you got to know him a lot better or even date/hookup with? Women seem to especially be like this.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • A lot.

    I just don't want him to know everything about me - no one does anyways.

    Some parts of me are just for me.

    I don't tell him things that probably won't interest him and the things I don't tell anyone else.

    I only tell him things he needs to know and things he asks me (if I feel he can/should know them).

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What Girls Said 3

  • Everything.

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  • well I keep to myself my little insecurities & my ex's.. also I avoid telling guys thinks that I think they might not be interested in or things that sounds stupid & goofy unless the timing's right :P :)

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  • I don't purposely keep anything hidden, I just use common sense about what to discuss and what to save for later :P For example, I'm not about to tell him my entire relationship history right from the start, but if the topic comes up, I'll be honest.

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What Guys Said 2

  • You should never tell your date everything about you. Believe me no one wants to know and you'll sound super self-centered and into yourself. What you don't want to talk about:

    1. Exes

    2. A list of what you don't like (a little is OK, but don't get negative)

    3. Carry on always about one thing (I noticed I tend to talk about my family alot- not always good)

    4. Religion can turn some people off

    5. Your insecurities. This is very bad. You don't want to look too sensitive.

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  • My antennae... under a hat. Usually puts off

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