and they say no this whole thing just turned me off.- does that mean they do like you but theyre turned off?
If you ask so you don't like me anymore?
What Guys Said 1
It means that the argument/situation which happened has made them cautious about "liking you"... I.e. if you were recently in a fight with your boyfriend, and he said that, it means he still likes you but is a bit disturbed by the fight.
Most people do go through this from time to time, because we always "Expect" the worst out of a situation - it's as if we expect the other person to always betray us, because of our past. Think about it, can you really "trust" most of your ex's..? I know that I can't, and it's made me a little biased towards trusting new people in my life.. So every time I have a "fight" I'm almost expecting things to go sour, even if it's not a conscious thought, I still FEEL that things will go bad eventually, which makes me start to pull away from giving 110% of what I could (like when I get into a "new" relationship")..
My advice - be a little more caring and patient, eventually things will come back around.
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