After she tells you she likes you/has a crush on you?
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A few girls in the past have told me this, and most of them are what I would consider "desperate." It's not that I'm a narcissistic dooche. They were just those types of girls.
One girl happened to be a good friend of mine, and it was a good couple months before we even spoke of anything intimate. With both of us being smart and able to tie two and two together, it was kind of easy to figure out that the feelings were mutual. Eventually she was the one who brought it up first, and now we are married.
My conclusion? Don't go around telling people this kind of stuff unless you know deep-down that they feel the same. It's a lot to bear those feelings, and to tell you the truth, a lot of guys wouldn't appreciate that sudden emotional burden. It goes the same for girls. We just aren't ready to handle it.0