I'll start out with my back story. I'm 19, 6'2", 190 lbs, white, green eyes, brown hair,got a job, got my own place and I work out 4 times a week and a virgin. I'm very shy and hate to be the center of attention, I like to watch anime,play RPG games when I have time, I don't drink or smoke and I like to go to the clubs with my friends. I hate all music except Gucci Mane, I don't even like the other guys in his group.
My perfect girl is a dark hair, curvy like 130-140 lbs, under 5' 6", pretty face, smart, not annoying, semi needy and I don't care if they are a virgin or not.
The thing is I attract the opposite of my ideal girl, I don't want to settle as I'm a guy who wants a long term relationship. I always get the girl who wants to make out and have a sexual relationship, I'm not into that. Yes, I do want to have sex but not with someone I just met I want to wait and make sure it's someone I really like, my friends call me a bitch for not getting with the girls. It doesn't bother me as I've always been able to not be sucked into peer pressure as I grew up around drugs and alcohol and I never been drunk or high and 99% of my friends do one or the other or both.
I do talk to girls but I seem to always miss when I go up and talk to the ideal girl I see, but they never seem to want to talk to me first, instead I get the girl that I mentioned earlier that starts the conversation.
I guess I'm into the conservative type of girl and I would like your opinion if you are this type. I don't come off as a conservative guy because I hang out with the drug dealers and listen to Trap music, is this the reason I strike out with this type of girl?
I would like to add, I'm not one of those white kids trying to act gangsta that wears a 5x white t, I dress in jeans and a shirt that actually fits lol.
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I think the suggestions that you get a new group of friends are ridiculous - that is completely unfair. I grew up in a poorer neighbourhood and made lots of friends that people would consider a little shady, but they are good people. If someone is going to judge you on who your friends are, that's just unreasonable.
I'd say the problem is where you are looking. Most girls at clubs aren't looking for relationships. I think if you see a girl you like just around (malls, cafes, train, etc) you should approach her.
I don't know if I'm "conservative", but I don't do drugs, etc or "hook up", etc (though I don't fit your physical list).. But I actually can't really see what's wrong? Maybe it's just the girls you approach aren't the right 'fit'. Maybe it's just that you are young and the girls aren't looking for anything serious.. It's not a HUGE issue though, you still have plenty of time to find your ideal girl - patience.0
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