After our date I thought we had a mutual connectio and leaned in to kiss and was rejected as she turn her head and I landed one on her cheek. She giggled and we ended the night. Should I keep going out with her or is the no kiss a sign to stop trying
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She giggled after the kiss - it means she's flattered by the fact that you attempted to kiss her. She liked it, but just didn't want to accept the kiss yet. She's a little reserved, a little shy, and probably thought it was just too soon.
Or she got nervous about it and just lacked the confidence in herself to take the kiss from ya. I was out at the bar one night and I saw a couple together having fun. The guy tried to kiss his girl, but she turned her head to the side at the last moment and he backed off.
--> 5 minutes later, she was kissing him. The guy did NOT lose his cool. He stayed relaxed and backed off, and didn't take her rejection so seriously.
So don't worry about this. Keep persistent with this girl and keep having fun with her. Stay positive. But also keep in mind that the body speaks louder than the mouth. Study her body language. One tip I can give you is this - if you come to an awkward silence (if she stops talking and just stares in your eyes), it's a possible green light to share a kiss with her. I was in a situation with a girl where she just gave me extended eye contact and we couldn't hold a convo anymore. So what did I do about it? I teased her, then asked her if she was ready to leave. We went back to her place and we shared some good make-outs. I didn't go any further though because she has a boyfriend and I didn't wanna f*ck that up.
So by all means, keep going with her. She'll cave in to you sooner or later. Or if not, don't sweat it. Perhaps she doesn't want a relationship right now, or some other crap going on. In which case, you go pick up other girls and date them.0