I am utterly crap at approaching girls. I HATE clubs (am I the only one?!) If I could magic a girl onto a first date without having to ask her, It'd be perfect, but I don't have the balls. In fact I'm pretty sure I could make a lot of girls happy, I'm intelligent, training to be a helicopter co-pilot. I'm a good guitarist, giving lessons in my local area, I'm not bad looking (I hope)...
Whenever I'm invited out to a club, I end up just wanting to to sit and chat, people must think I'm properly odd. Anyway, do I avoid clubs and try and pick girls up elsewhere? or should I work on a 'Pulling technique'? jeez, that sounds sleazy...
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God you are gorgeous, I think you could get a girl anywhere, just get a grip!
You don't have to go to places you don't like. That I know for sure, because in such places you are bound to end up looking quite odd, though I have no problems with that and I don't think you should have any either.
Talk to your friends about this they can actually be a good support for you and the best advice - relax and just get a grip!
I think most guys get there confidence from the fact that they are not afraid to get rejected, and there is nothing that makes a girl going more than a confident (not cocky) guy.
You sound like an interesting person, if you would walk up to me at the bar, I think I would let you buy me a drink.0