Here's the problem, I'm 23 year old I never date a girl before , I live in the states but I'm originally from different culture and religion. Many girls showed me they are interested in me, but because of the different religion , I never approach them, it is so painful and they might think I'm rude for ignoring them and all of them were nice and cute girls , my religion don't allow me to date or have any relation outside marriage, unfortunately I lost all those girls, I'm afraid to lose another one I'm not sure if she will understand me and convert to my religion so we can get married , there are beautiful girls from my own culture but to be honest I'm attracted to American girls, what would you do?
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Honestly, I think it's a big thing to ask your partner to convert to a different way of life.
Of course, it depends on what kind of American girl you find, America is a giant mix of women from different places and cultures and religions. I live in the states, but I'm foreign and I have no religion at all, so I'm just one example. Personally, I would not convert to any religion. I would accept and probably embrace my partner being religious (depending on how strongly religious he is), but joining him is not something I see myself doing.
Other women who ARE religious, even though they may be some other faith might be more inclined just because they have a faith-based background. It depends on how long you're together, how in love you are and what your plans for the future are.
I think it will be difficult for you to find a woman to marry right away without any dating unless you get pretty lucky. You might want to talk to your family and your religious leader about this - as them how you would go about finding the right partner and whether there's any leeway about dating, after all there are millions of Muslim couples in the world, they all found each other somehow.0