My boyfriend seems more distant lately and hasn't really been wanting to hang out.we don't really have sex anymore and he doesn't act the way he use too its weird too me. I'm not sure what could be going on I just want some idea of what it might be or maybe has this ever happened to anyone and how did it end?
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It's normal for some loss of passion in a relationship to occur gradually over time. It depends on a variety of factors, which may not necessarily mean that the relationship is in trouble. Often times health issues such as hormone imbalance, depression, or high stress levels may impair the level of passion in a relationship. It could also be that maybe he has had a lot of work lately, from either school or his job, that he needs to focus on for a while so he can be successful. Or maybe he hasn't seen some of his buddies for a while and wants to maintain his friendships with them.
What it all boils down to are probably communication issues. Ask him how he has been feeling lately! Good communication, honesty, and trust are essential in order to have a successful relationship. Don't just ask "what's wrong?" -- ask him what he feels he is or isn't getting out of the relationship, and if there is anything you can do to fix or improve those issues. Be open minded and receptive to what he says and let him know that you are.1