If you met an attractive person with a great personality and began dating them but later found out that they had once been overweight, obese, or even morbidly obese, would you suddenly have any reservations about being in a relationship with them? Why or why not?
Would how long ago the weight loss had occurred matter to you?
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It could be a deal-breaker. I'd need to see her with her shirt off. The skin in her stomach area could look pretty bad. Sorta like a prune. Some loose skin is one thing. But TONS of it is something else to consider. I assure you I have experience with this. I would be incredibly bummed out if I liked her personality, etc. It just depends on the cosmetic severity. It wouldn't matter how long ago... or any other aspects about it. If anything I'd admire them as a person for losing the weight.2
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