Or at least let me know if I am in it or not. Meet this really cool girl and went out with her to a coffee shop recently. I think we had a good connection, we talked at the coffee shop for like 3 hrs and only left because I had lectures really. The date had really no flirting which is what worries me, maybe a couple moments when our legs touched and she didn't move and some intense eye contact from time to time but nothing else. The goodbye was a big strong hug, and I kissed her on the cheek. What you think is a good second date and a good way to know at the end of it if she is attracted to me as more than friends?
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I wouldn't make it super romantic. It's still very early. Don't be afraid of the so called "friend zone". Lots of girls don't even want to get romantically closer to a guy without some kind of friendship bond first. So you'll have to become her friend first. This is for the best anyway. Getting physical early, usually ends things early.
I would take her to a bar or a club maybe. Drinks are a good icebreaker. Grab a table and some drinks and you'll have a lot to talk about. Plus alcohol. It's a win win. I would go for the kiss at the end of the night when she is by her car. Start with a close mouthed kiss because she may be freaked out if you try to eat her face. It's only you're first kiss anyway. There will be more.2