I am in a long term relationship. One of the things I have always wondered is who should text call first. I know if I'm feeling uncertain I always wait and see if the guy will call/text first. I'm just wondering guys do you like it when your girlfriend texts you first to see how your day is going? How much is too much? I Haven't texted my boyfriend yet today and was wondering whether I should text him or just wait.
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I think people should text/call when they want. If you want to talk to your BF, talk to him, that's why you two are together. I get really aggravated when I sense someone I'm dating is playing games and just trying to get me to text her first even though she wants to tell me something. Not saying you're doing that, just illustrating the point that I'm all for simple, direct communication. And yes, I really love it when I hear from a girlfriend and she asks about me. Makes me feel cared for and reminds me why I love her.
By the way, I was in a smothering relationship with a girl once and it had nothing to do with how often she texted me.3
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